Is he leading you on? Spot a time waster!

We say that a person is leading us on when we feel that we are being given false hope, and in our specific case, a potential client can lead on an escort just to keep her talking to him, in expectation of him setting up the details of an actual date, by appealing to a lot of schemes.

In this article we are about to show you ladies some signs that, if encountered, can be seen as red flags, regarding that guy’s real intentions. So, take a look and if you identify some of these schemes when talking to a potential client, keep in mind that you might be dealing with a time waster!

One compliment after another

If the guy you are talking to keeps:

• complimenting you, trying so hard to show you how special he feels you are to him,
• doing cheesy flirting with vague, generic compliments, that can be sent in bulk to whomever,
• sending lots and lots of emoticons while not saying anything personal or specific regarding your looks or your personality

then that is a red flag that suggests he’s a time waster.

He just wants to keep you hooked, to make you invest time and interest in his persona, without having any interest in actually book you for a date. So, ladies next time a potential client sends you lots of emoticons and it keeps on telling you how hot you are, how sexy, how attractive, and so on, but doesn’t say anything else about your actual date, stop the conversation right there because in most cases it won’t end up with a date.

A copy-paste approach

If you feel as if his approach is impersonal and seems a little bit “copy-paste”, then maybe you should listen to your gut and if you have connections among other escorts in the area, check out with them if they were also approached by the same guy. Exchanging information with a close group of fellow escorts is so valuable in this line of work. So, keep that communication line going and discuss among yourselves about time wasters, and if one of you has a time waster flagged on her agenda, she will be able to let other escorts know.

All talk and no plans

There’s another type of time waster, the one that keeps you hooked in endless conversations, without talking about long term plans. Going around the bush about setting up a date for you to meet, setting up dates that are impossible for you to accept, these are ways of him leading you on, and keeping you hooked for free conversation and pics, without having the intention to make plans with you.

He confuses you for someone else

Now that’s a major red flag, signaling that he’s been chatting with a lot of other escorts and delivering the same message to you all. A client that is genuinely interested in meeting you is fast and clear about time, place and things he wants during the date. If he starts talking, he refuses every availability you’ve got to meet with him, coming up with all sorts of excuses, if he’s all talk and no action, then darling, there’s a big chance he’s leading you on and also does the same with other escorts.

What other warning signs you believe are red flags signaling that he’s a time waster? Share us your experiences so that other escorts can know what red flags to look for and dismiss all guys trying to lead them on with false pretenses.