Number One Resolution For Escorts For 2015: Be Proud Of Who You Are!

It’s almost the middle of December and we’re getting really close to that time of year, dear escorts, where we look back at all we’ve achieved in the past twelve months, learn from our mistakes and adapt for the future, adopting the best resolutions we can come up with. We’ve previously talked about three escorting resolutions every companion should make and keep throughout the next year, but we also want to focus on a particular lifestyle value we’ve only lightly touched upon in the previous article.

Although nowadays we’re becoming more and more liberal about almost every kind of profession, sex workers are still looked down upon. And it’s easy as an escort to hide under a veil of secrecy – we camouflage it with words like “discretion”, but in reality for many companions it is shame or fear. It’s time you let go of these feelings!

It’s baffling how most of society will say “they had it coming!” when they hear about a sex worker being harmed. As if this job made you less than a human being. It’s no wonder most escorts prefer to keep their identities private, especially when family and friends also come into play. What do we do? Lie about our job and keep our loved ones close or risk our relationships?

Being confronted daily with this inner fight can make us question if this really is the trade for us. When so many people judge us, should we judge ourselves? The answer is: no, never!

Each escort has their reason to keep their companion identities private, but that reason should never interfere with the pride they take in their work. You are giving comfort to people who cannot find it anywhere else. Most of the times it’s more than just physical comfort you’re offering. You’re also like a therapist. Your clients can be themselves with you, and share their worries and wants without fear of being judged. Remember how sex therapy can be the best kind of therapy for many people.

Sure, helping others might not be the main priority on an escort’s work frame, but that doesn’t mean you don’t invariably do it. Maybe the money interests you more or the fact that you’re in charge of your schedule is the most important part for you as an escort, but the fact of the matter is you’re offering a very special type of service to people who need it. So, dear escorts, whenever you’re feeling down or questioning your activity, remind yourself that you have every right to be proud of who you are and what you do!