How Sex Therapy and Escorts Can Help You

23.09.14

Many men have issues when it comes to sex. Some are influenced by physical problems that are hard to fix, such as premature ejaculation. Many physical issues such as these can be treated, however. All these men have to do is feel safe and unjudged in admitting they have a problem.

 

Others create mental barriers if they believe they are unfit sexually – overweight, too hairy, too bald, too short etc. Gentlemen, we’ve got one advice for you: overcome your fears and issues by seeking an escort.

 

Nowadays it’s easy to find a doctor or sex therapist to help you out, but most of your issues are usually in your head, and the quickest way to get them fixed is to look for the real expert in the sex industry: the professional companion.  Whether you just want to talk about your problems or work on overcoming them, an escort will be exactly what you need.

 

However, the moment you book a companion, you have to consider certain aspects:

 

1. She isn’t the solution. She is merely the way to finding a solution. You’ve got to help yourself out first of all. A companion won’t judge you or criticise you. She’ll be there to offer you everything you need. You just have to be open to sharing your requests with her.

 

2. Speak your mind! This isn’t the time to be shy. Tell your companion what you want and what you need, otherwise she won’t be able to help you. While most escort have a sixth sense when it comes to desires, she won’t instinctually know what your issues are. The more open you are with your situation, the quicker you both can find a solution to your problems.

 

3. Don’t be rude. Service providers aren’t your toys for the hour you paid for. They’re people too, and the nicer you are to them, the nicer they’ll be to you. Sexual issues are many times related to intimacy more than to anything else, and you can’t be intimate with someone you take for granted or do not consider a person at all.

 

4. Don’t focus on too many things at once. You can’t do everything in one encounter – work through your issues and live your wildest fantasies all at once. Take them one step at a time and consider from the start the possibility of meeting your chosen escort more than one time.

 

5. Ask for feedback and offer it in return. It isn’t enough to speak to your companion only before and during the encounter. You have to ask for some feedback post-meeting as well. Ask your escort where she feels the problem resides and how she suggests fixing it.

 

Overall, this entire process of communication, sharing of fears, anxieties and issues is what you should do in a relationship in the future as well. Try not to hide these things from your partner because it will negatively affect both your lives in the future. Learn from your escort encounter and embrace intimacy! 

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