What TYPES of GROUP SEX are you practicing?

Group sex is a service that not many escorts are offering, but if you do, it is important to clearly state what you mean by group sex, to know how to prep in advance and how to handle the date all together.

When you are advertising yourself as an escort that offers group sex, you must have in mind that there are several types of group sex, so you must be more specific about your service list if you want to avoid awkward situations or confusion.

The most basic form of group sex is the “DUO with another escort”, service.  If you have a fellow escort friend with whom you are getting along, you enjoy spending time together and are in sync when it comes to sex issues, you can discuss about doing some gigs together, as a DUO. Clients go for a DUO with another escort, type of date when they want to spice things up a little in their life. This type of threesome is a classic one – with a male client and two escorts.

For the DUO escort service to work, the two escorts must know each other, have done this in the past and like doing this together. Chemistry between escorts is essential, because if you want this to work and the client to give you a great review and come back for more, the two escorts must be in complete sync, must know each other’s moves, must not be jealous or in competition with one another and must behave like true professionals.

There are also the threesomes involving a couple and an escort. This is the safest type of group sex, when a couple is looking to try out new things in bed, without having to fear that one of them will fall in love or cheat, outside of the agreed group.

Here there are other things to consider, and the most important of them all is communication – as an escort you must know the couple’s limits, what you are allowed to do and what not. Maybe kissing or caressing are off the table, or maybe one of them is more into watching, or one of them is into anal sex and wants to do it, and the other isn’t. You can’t know all these details without asking the right questions in advance.

Also, with first timers, things can get tricky, because they may not know exactly what their boundaries are, or they may say something at the beginning of the date, only to change their minds when things get heated. You must be open to communicating, you must always check if things are ok and are heading in a direction where both partners are ok with, and if one of them changes his mind about something, step back and facilitate a relaxed conversation about new boundaries, so that everyone can feel good and not experience jealousy or awkwardness.

When gangbang comes in discussion, things are getting more serious – this is a situation of a multiple partners type of date, when you must satisfy all of them at once, one way or the other. It most often involves double penetration, vaginal and anal, and it is requested mostly by groups of men.

This type of multiple partners escort date is not for everyone. You must be an experienced escort, familiar with the rules of gang bangs, with what this type of group sex really means, there must be clear boundaries, safe words, things that are definitely off the table and so on. Even if the pay is consistent, this service is not for everyone, because it involves having great stamina, a lot of confidence, experience with multiple partners scenarios, and the mental clarity to get over it all, at the end of the day.

And there are sex parties, that are not gang bangs because you don’t have to have sex with all the guys involved, but you will have multiple partners during the party. It is a more casual scenario, a mix of voyeurism, exchange of partners, threesomes, and classic one-on-one sex. It is like speed dating but with sex because you get to have intercourse with multiple clients, but not with all at once. And because you are not addressing the ones attending the sex party as a group, you must take into consideration the needs of each client you’re having an encounter with.

• When it comes to group sex (any of the forms mentioned above), communication is key, so ask all the necessary questions and feel free to voice your likes and dislikes.
• Tell your dates to have reasonable expectations and not expect a porn scene like in the movies, because the porn scene’s their seeing on TV are directed by a professional, during a lot of hours of shooting until the scene looks perfect, noting is flowy and easy as seen in the result of a porno.
• No matter on what side you are – the client or the escort, make sure to have fun, relax and enjoy yourself, because the best sex happens when you’re feeling comfortable enough to laugh and forget about other thoughts or worries.

Discuss what everyone’s limits are, respect the boundaries, establish a safe word that means that whatever is happening at that moment needs to stop and have a lot of fun!