What separates an average escort from a VIP escort?

Being an escort, a courtesan, a provider, a companion or whatever you want to call it, may seem an easy job, but in fact is an extremely demanding occupation. And, unlike other jobs, where you must excel at one particular thing, as a professional escort, if you want to be memorable and attract the right type of clients, you need to have multiple skills.

Skills of an elite escort

• from knowing how to dress and what makeup to wear
• to knowing how to make good conversation
• knowing how to “read” your date, so that you can change your approach according to his personality, his disposition, or his sexual preferences
• having mad sex skills

So, yeah, being an escort is not an easy job and it is not for everyone. That’s why it is best to figure it out if you are up for this type of work and if not, to reconsider your career path.

Being a provider is exhausting both physically and mentally. It is something that drains you of energy and can easily distract you from any other activity or life you might want to have outside work.

Average or elite escort? What makes the difference?

Being able to separate your personal life to the escort one is what makes the difference from being an average service provider, to being an unforgettable escort that delivers a top service.

Set a goal for yourself and have that in mind as a reminder as for why you are doing this type of work.

Knowing why you are doing the type of job you are choosing to do and having an end goal in mind is a great way to start your escorting activity.

If the reason you are working as a provider is wrong, you might want to reconsider your decisions. We are talking about women that are doing this after having a history of emotional or physical abuse, women that are doing it to get back on an ex, or women that are doing it thinking that this way they have a chance of scoring a rich potential lover.

Being an escort as a full-time job

Try to treat escorting as a regular job, something that takes place according to a certain schedule, always leave room for free time and always respect your rest hours. This way you won’t overdo it, ending up exhausted and burned out.

If you do incalls, try to create a space for entertaining your clients. This way you can feel more organized and make a difference between your private life and your work life. Best would be to have a different incall location for your escorting activity, or a location shared with a fellow escort, so that you can make a better distinction between your work like and your private life.

Having a private life and taking breaks - the secret to a successful escort life

Take vacations! If you work on holidays, try to do it on rotation – for example if you work on Easter, try to have Christmas free. And another thing: if you were to have a “normal” job you would take some free time just for you, to go on a girl’s trip, or a vacation with your partner. So, why don’t do just that even when working as an escort?

Don’t forget to mention on your website or escort directory profile, the time of day when you’re available to be contacted by a potential client and the preferred type of communication – via what’s up, email, text message, phone and so on. Make sure you have two different phones, one for work and one for your personal life and don’t answer the work calls or texts outside working hours in order not to create a precedent for your clients.

Setting up boundaries with your clients is the sanest thing to do when you’re a professional escort. This way your dates know when to contact you, and will respect that, know that you have your own personal life and won’t bother you when on vacation and know not to bother you outside the date that you’ve both planned and scheduled.

If you can’t make a difference between your escort life and your personal life, then darling you’re not suited to be an escort, because soon you’ll feel exhausted, your dates will not respect your privacy and boundaries and you will end up having no time for yourself and forgetting who you are outside the job that you are doing.

Don’t let yourself get lost in the escorting life, and you’ll have better chances of being a great professional, a woman that is respected by her dates and that offers a memorable experience that makes them always come back for more.