Incalls vs. Outcalls, what is the best choice for you?

Are you a girl providing a high class escort service or are you a hobbyist (an active client of escorts)? Either way this post is about incalls vs. outcalls and what you prefer when it comes to setting up a date.

Both of those two have their pros and cons but in the end is a matter of choice and preference. For some, lying around in their home/hotel room while waiting for their date is really tempting, while for others the idea of going to meet a stranger in a new, unknown location can be really arousing.

The list of pros and cons vary from escort to client, that’s why we are going to present them one at a time.

ESCORTS – Incalls vs. Outcalls

1.      A stranger in your house

While it is handy to have all your necessary products, like sexy outfits, spear lingerie, kinky sex toys and extra condoms at the tip of your fingers, greeting a complete stranger in the privacy of your house (in those occasions when the incall is your own little nest, where you live your daily life) can be a little tricky.

This applies especially in the cases when the client is not a regular but a first timer. First of all you take a risk because you don’t really know the guy, even if you’ve checked him out before setting up the encounter.

He may be a guy looking to rob you or he may be a complete weirdo that makes you feel uncomfortable.

Either way, he is at your place, he knows your address, he sees your valuables and you don’t have the luxury of leaving the date if you feel awkward.

So in these cases it would have been better to wait for your guest at a hotel room or to visit him at his place.

2.      You can’t leave the date when you feel like it

When you set up a date you also discuss the time for which your date is booking you and the way that your partner want’s the date to go (fantasies, lingerie, fetishes and so on).

But when the encounter takes place at your housw and the client is not in a hurry to leave when the time is up, you have a problem!

You can’t leave, because, obviously you are at your place. You can also risk of upsetting your next date if he arrives and he finds another man with you and sees you not prepared for him.

Another problem that can occur is that the client may turn up to be violent or disrespectful. At an outcall you get to leave the room in the second your date turns messy, but at an outcall you really don’t have a choice. You can stand up for yourself, call a friend that lives nearby to help you or wait for the client to cool down.

3.      Your client may feel way comfortable at his place

Receiving a man in your private apartment may be comfy and relaxing for you but it can be weird for your date.

This applies especially when we are talking about a new client or a jealous type that doesn’t want to think about all the other men that were invited in your bed before him.

Most men tend to be more comfortable when they are in a neutral or familiar place, rather than visiting you for the first time at your place.

He may not enjoy your neighborhood, your loud neighbors, the way you’ve decorated the place or the way to familiar stuff laying around. For them you must be an enigma, a sexy maiden dressed up in provocative lingerie, always eager to please your man.

They don’t want to see your electricity bill, your kid’s stroller, the leftovers from the take away you’ve ordered a night before or your tampons in the bathroom.

4.      Less cleaning up to do, more time for new clients

When you receive a date at your place is mandatory that you set up a cozy environment, you clean up the house and hide away your private stuff. All that takes time, time that you could have spent in the company of your friends or with another client.

When going at an outcall, or setting up an incall at a hotel you don’t have to worry about cleaning.

5.      Incalls can be costly for the escort

Keeping an incall can be pretty expensive for you, because of the monthly bills, the rent and the decorating costs. While if you are a young escort, all on your own, you can co-rent a place with a friend and set up your dates at a hotel or at the client’s place.

6.      Outcalls are helping you have a simpler, weird-free date

When you are at your place the client can take advantage of that fact to turn your date into a dress-up show, making you switch all kind of outfits and test all your sex toys and that can be really tiresome at some point.

While at an outcall date you get to limit to the arsenal that you’ve brought with you, keeping the client excited about setting up another date in order to play some more with you.

CLIENTS - Incalls vs. Outcalls

1.      Incalls – the easiest way to date an escort

If you don’t have a place of your own and you don’t want to lose money on renting a hotel room, going at an escorts house can seem a pretty good idea. You pay only for the service and you leave exactly when you feel like it. A con appears if the incall is at a hotel room and there is a chance of a police raid to happen.

2.      Outcalls – a more comfortable place for the client

You as a client may feel more relaxed and confident when you are on your own territory rather than visiting the escort at her place. You have the confidence that the bed is clean and the decorum is familiar and exactly how you want it to be.

Also you know that you have all the amenities that you desire – a shower, toiletry products and so on, that the neighborhood is safe and that you won’t stumble upon her personal belongings.

The cons of outcalls refer to the quality of the girl that you are inviting at your place – if she has sticky fingers, if she is not punctual when it comes to respecting the time of the date or if you have a life partner and by calling an escort at your place you risk of getting caught in the act.

Establishing which type of date is better suited to our lifestyle – incalls or outcalls, depends on each and every one of us.

You, both escort and client, can feel better or safer at your own place or, on the contrary, you can opt for an outcall. It’s your choice. All you have to do is make a list of what your needs and desires are and then decide.