How to Take Away Your Client’s Nervousness

Not every client knows what to do or how to behave when he’s meeting an escort. Nervousness is bound to set in, and it’s worse when he’s about to experience his first appointment with a female service provider. But even experienced clients can get cold feet, particularly when they meet someone new (who looks really hot). What if they screw up and she doesn’t want to meet him ever again? Feeling edgy is normal; it shows you care about the lady you’re about to see face-to-face for the first time in your life. You don’t want to treat her badly or do anything else that might make her feel like crap. We’re here to tell all of you female companions out there how to make your clients feel comfortable with you! There are several tips we at Escort Directory want you ladies to remember next time you have an appointment with a guy who doesn’t feel at ease around you.

In case the meeting happens at your place, a hotel room or a private spot, make sure you tell him that it’s OK if he takes off his tie. Do the same with the shoes he’s wearing. Don’t come in a dress that shows too much, a shirt with deep cleavage or a mini skirt. Avoid stuff that’s much too sexy; he might stay in his shell throughout the meeting. It’s always best if you just wear something that says “casual date” or “romantic date” instead. Don’t turn out late to the appointment and never touch his shoulder or forearm in a sexual way. Always, but always, look straight into his eyes whenever he talks to you. Before the two of you meet, be sure that both his expectations and yours are thoroughly discussed.

Do you know how to give massages? If you don’t, take some lessons; a massage can greatly relax and calm a nervous client. In case he wishes to spoil you, let him do it; but never behave in such a way as to make only him happy if you’re not 100% happy yourself with what he asks of you. Before anything else can happen, create a list of safe conversation topics. He might not want to discuss his private life, work or anything like that. Pay very good attention to what he’s saying. Also, smile when there’s need for it and keep your body language relaxed. It’s natural to feel nervous yourself, but never let him sense that. If he orders drinks, let him do it; never be the one to offer him alcohol. Don’t drink too much or you might do something you’ll regret one day.

If you do all of the above and nothing works, suggest meeting him a second time. Or simply extend the appointment. That way, he won’t be looking at his watch to check how much time’s left. Doing that can really stress a client!

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