Do's and Don'ts When Booking an Escort - Part I

Want to book an escort for the first time? You’re probably sweating buckets already or on the contrary: you’re sure that everything’s going to go very well. Newsflash: you’ll make plenty of rookie mistakes.

There are many performers who’ve gone through uncomfortable situations because of that. Lots of clients refuse to go by an escort’s rules, which eventually lands them on a companion’s blacklist. Not every performer is lenient, and that’s their prerogative. You should respect that, because at the end of the day they’re not a piece of meat for you to enjoy for X hours. You play by their rules, great. You don’t… it’s fine once, but don’t make the same mistake twice.

Let’s see the most frequent mistakes you should avoid as a customer on your first booking.

Don’t ask too many questions

Especially when it comes to phone conversations. Say you read a lady’s or guy’s ad on a dedicated forum, website, discussion board, and so on. But they don’t have a personal website to see what kind of services they provide. If you start bombarding a male or female companion with A LOT of questions by phone, you’ll be a time waster and they’ll hang up on you. Instead of annoying them like that, try telling them that you’d like to discuss certain things face to face. If they agree, make an appointment.

In case they’re not comfortable with that, simply discuss, in a respectful manner, what you expect from them during a potential rendezvous. Maybe you’re looking for a naughty vixen or a sweet girl-next-door experience. If they’re fine with that, consider yourself lucky and prepare for the time of your life. In case she or he doesn’t offer the kind of services you’re into, thank them for their time and move on to someone else.

Don’t ignore an escort’s profile

Nothing is as disrespectful to a companion as finding out that a potential client hasn’t paid attention to what’s written on their profile or personal website. Read everything carefully because those pages contain everything you need to know about that lady or guy. Plus, you’ll avoid asking silly or time-wasting questions.

Also, look at the escort’s photos, watch their videos, and you’ll know whether to book them. Don’t inquire about their height, the color of their eyes, and so on if it’s already there on their website or ad.

Never ask their real name

If they’d wanted to, they would have told you that. When a companion uses a pseudonym, they do that for several reasons. Some do it to avoid stigma, others don’t use their real names in order to separate their personal lives from their professional ones.

Other questions you shouldn’t ask: “do your parents know that you work as an escort?”, are you single or in a relationship?”, “do you have kids?”, “do you like what you do for a living?”, and other personal stuff they don’t want to share. Keep things on a business level.

Also, don’t be the gossipy kind and ask about other escorts or clients. It’s rude and it puts you in a very bad light. You want someone who’s discreet, right? If your partner gossips with you about some other escort or client, they will spread rumors about you in turn.

Never stay longer than discussed

It’s very easy to get lost in the moment, especially with a gorgeous escort. Whatever you feel, don’t extend the booking without first telling your partner about it. You will sound like a jerk and your escort will feel uncomfortable. Don’t push your luck. The best thing to do is to book a longer session the next time you want to see your favorite lady or gentleman.

Pay the right sum

One of the most important details you’ll find on an escort’s profile is her or his rate. Pay attention to that and you’ll avoid embarrassing moments. Never ever go to a booking with the wrong amount of money and don’t forget to also have the right change on you.

Leave the money in an envelope before moving to the fun part. You should never make your date be the one who asks for money.

Don’t get lost

Have you just booked a session? The escort will give you a certain spot as reference for her location. This helps you find your way around. However, even if they tell you how to get there, you can still find yourself lost and late. 

To avoid that, ask for more concise directions and leave earlier for the appointment. It will give you time to arrive where you’re supposed to be on time.