Tips & Tricks: Become Mata Hari

It’s easy to make mistakes in this industry, whether you’re an experienced escort or a newcomer. The problem when working with people is that they’re volatile and you need to be a chameleon, always adapting to your environment. Try things out on your own skin, but read about others’ experiences as well. Don’t fight the competition, learn from them. And the first thing you should always remember is to never mix your personal life with your business!

This might sound like the kind of faux pas everyone is aware of, but even pros can make this mistake. Take this example: you’re having dinner with a client. He’s enjoying his free time with you, telling you stories about his life. It’s easy to forget you’re actually at work in this context. You might even feel like sharing some stories of your own. Even more so if this person is a loyal client and you’ve known him for a long time. Keeping your personal and business lives separate can be challenging.

The solution: Become Mata Hari. Create a fascinating working persona with a background different from your own. This will help to maintain both your safety and your clients’ interest. Get a work phone as well, but work as much as possible from your escort e-mail address. Offer your phone number only after you screen your client.

Try inventing some stories when you’re creating this persona. If you’ve ever wanted to be a fictional character, this is the time to do it! The great part about this is that your clients will probably love the stories as well. They’ll find you absolutely fascinating and everyone wants to spend more time with interesting people. Have some fun with your background and be creative! 

(Photo is of the beautiful Martha, age 26, Athens)