Signs that your sugar relationship is failing!

Having a sugar relationship is not as easy and simple as it may seem at a first glance. On the contrary, a sugar relationship is an arrangement that implies a lot of involvement from both the sugar baby and the sugar daddy and lots of potential risks to consider.

A sugar relationship starts just like any other normal relationship, with the dating and getting to know each other part and continues with the discussion regarding the terms that each partner wants to set in the relationship. But what starts as sweet as sugar, can turn out to be way to sweet or on the contrary, way to sour than what the expectations were.

This is the moment when the sugar relationship must end, as hard as that might be, especially when there is money involved.

The signs of a sugar relationship ending are the same for both partners, so keep an eye for the following things:

1.      Crossing the accepted boundaries

When the partner wants to do something you’re not ok with. This applies to sex not to everyday life decisions!

So, if your partner, the sugar daddy/mommy or the sugar baby wants to experiment something sexually, that you are not ok with, it’s your right to say no and if this turns into a patter and the partner keeps on pushing things on you that makes you feel uncomfortable, just forget about the arrangement and stop the sugar relationship.

It is not ok to be intimidated into doing something you don’t want to do and you should know that and fight for your rights!

2.      Feeling entitled to everything

Some sugar babies feel entitled to the money that their sugar daddy has and tend to offer them attention only when there is something financial to gain out of it.

In the same time, some sugar daddies consider that they are entitled to every second and moment of attention from their sugar baby, just because they offer her a financial stimulus and they try to take advantage of that, by becoming overly attached and by trying to monopolise every second of their sugar baby’s life.

This stands against all that a sugar relationship really means, because a sugar relation should be about mutual confidence, help, attention and benefits. In this case the sugar daddy gets the time and attention that he wants and the sugar baby gets the kind of pampering that she’s always been dreaming about – financial support, fancy trips, shopping sprees and so on. But when only one of the two involved into the partnership gets the benefits and tries to play the other, the sugar relationship should end.

3.      Abusive situations

A sugar relationship is very much similar to a normal one, that’s why there is a risk that one of the partners will eventually break the rules, by getting overly attached, jealous or possessive. In case of emotional or physical abuse, from the partner, the other person involved in this duo should just leave.

Keep in mind that emotional abuse is just as dangerous as the physical one and the marks are left behind on the soul and mind. So, do not accept any kind of abuse from your sugar partner and leave the relationship, no matter how many other good things it brings you.

Not only the sugar daddy can be abusive! Sometimes the sugar baby feels so entitled and gets so involved and blinded by emotions that can turn into the abuser.

4.      Commitment problems

This problem appears when one of the partners involved in the sugar relationship feels so good that they want to take the next step, break the rules and commit to a serious relationship. If the other partner isn’t ready for this, the desire for a deeper commitment can be a deal breaker between the two sugar partners.

Because a sugar relationship is more than just a date, or an affair, it involves talking, going on dates together, on trips, sharing intimate thoughts and moments and so on, the risk of this turning into something more is higher. And if the two partners are not sharing the same desires for the future, then problems will appear!

5.      No more allowance

When the sugar daddy fails to stick to his part of the deal, many months in a row, the sugar baby is justified to break the relationship. So, if the financial help that the sugar daddy has promised for his sugar baby, fails to appear, the sugar baby has all the reasons to leave the relationship.

These are just some of the reason that should convince you to get out of a bad, toxic, sugar relationship, but we are all individuals and we react to different events and stimulus, so if something out of this list bothers you about your partner, do not feel obliged to keep on dating him and just leave!