Rejecting a client – HOW to do that and WHY!

14.03.17

Rejection is very common thing in the escorting industry and it can come from both the client or the escort. The most important thing is to know how to deal with rejection and how to turn down in a delicate and diplomatic manner so that the one that is being rejected won’t get hurt. Keep in mind that the people turning to escorts are the ones that are trying to get a different and more positive experience from dating, so if you feel like turning a client down be gentle and sweet and come up with a good reason to do so.

Escorts can also be rejected by clients that had something else in mind when they made the booking, but that rejection doesn’t have to be taken seriously. Just understand and remind yourself from time to time that people are different and their needs and desires may vary. Don’t make it personal and be gracious about it!

WHY reject a client

The reasons can be both objective or subjective and it’s ok to turn down a client that makes you feel uncomfortable, as long as you’re not excessively picky. The major deal breakers when it comes to dating a client are the hygiene, the awkward sexual requests, the bad attitude and the rumours about him being red flagged by other escorts.

Hygiene – a must if the things are turning intimate

The hygiene issue is definitely a deal breaker when it comes to getting close and intimate with a client, so make sure that he smells nice, he’s clean looking and his clothes are fresh and tidy. Those are things that you catch at a first glance, so do this scrutiny when you first shake hands and keep in mind that if there are problems during this general overview, there will be even bigger problems when he will take of his clothes. If you don’t like the way his mouth smells, his uncut fingernails or his hairy and smelly armpits, come up with an excuse to put him in a shower and if he refuses, feel free to refuse the date politely.

Awkward requests? Accept or deny him, it’s your choice!

Make sure you have a complete profile and a service list with all the things you are willing to offer to your clients. This way you avoid the awful situations when the client books you for a certain type of service and he finds out during the date that you do not perform that exact thing. There are also times when the client does not pay attention to your service list or thinks that he can convince you during your date, to agree on a certain service, something that you are not ok doing. This is one of the situations when you are 100% justified to refuse the client. Deal with such a person by trying to explain that you don’t do that type of service and offer him something else in return, something that is on your service list and if he still insists on what he wants, you can gently refuse him and even leave the date.

Red flags? Then the date is a big no-no!

Do a security check on every client that you have because that is a definitely must in this line of work if you value your good name and safety. And, if during the security check you find some red flags regarding your date, things like: violent background, criminal record, negative feedback from other escorts or lies that he’s been telling you, then you’ve got plenty of reasons to politely refuse him and book another client.

Rude client = a bad date that should be avoided!

A bad attitude at the phone, during the booking process is an important indicative that the client might be a little difficult to deal with. So, try to stay away from the clients that are being rude, negative and insulting when booking you, or in the first minutes after meeting you in person, because these guys are trouble!

Also, if you’ve had a bad experience with a rude client in the past, don’t think that he will change during future dates, because he won’t! So, refuse him as politely as you can and blacklist him so that other girls can be warned about him in the future.

HOW to reject a client

Sometimes being honest about the reason you’ve rejected your client is the best way to be, but if the client is being rude, has a bad temper, uses foul language and is aggressive, honesty is not the best solution.

Instead, if a client seems gentle, nice and open to suggestions, you can tell him, in a delicate manner, the reason behind your refusal. Tell him the reason and provide him with a solution for the future, so that he can avoid other rejections.

Always be firm and strong when refusing a client, keeping a polite and gentle tone in the meantime.

If you want to dodge an old client don’t stop answering his texts or calls, instead tell him you’re busy, you’re not taking any new clients, you are not performing the services he desires anymore and so on. This way, by offering him an explanation the two of you will part in a civilized manner and you’ll avoid bad reviews.

But, if a client is being rude, insists on calling over and over again and don’t know how to take no for an answer, just disappear. Cease all communication and block him from your list. This should send him a pretty clear message!

 

 

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