An escort’s guide to the perfect threesome!

The thought of having a threesome is on your mind for a while now and you’ve already talked to your partner about it and you seem to be on the same page and ready to try it out? Then my advice is not to rush into anything before doing your homework.

There are a couple of very important things, that as an escort I’ve run across during my activity, that are extremely important to be discussed in advanced, so that all the parties involved can have a great experience together.

First of all, if you and your life partner are having a relationship based on honesty and trust, and the idea of having a threesome is on your mind, but you are kind of afraid to talk about it, just man up and be honest.

Nothing good comes out of repressed desires and feelings, so it is better to put things on the table, rather than hide them deep in your mind, always asking “what if”. And if your partner is up for it, then good for you! Start planning the event together, ask her advice when choosing the third person to join you, talk about how you envision things to happen, about limits, boundaries and so on.

Set the rules and stick to them!

A threesome is not as easy as you might think, especially when there’s a couple involved and not only three singles. Feelings can get hurt, emotions can run wild and things can deteriorate. That’s why it is very important that you set the rules, the do’s and don’ts of the threesome, with your partner, before booking an escort to accompany you. Planning everything ahead may seem a little forced, but trust me, it is better this way, rather than having your partner making a scene and freaking out during your threesome.

If you don’t feel comfortable seeing your partner kissing another person but you, then put kissing on the no go list. Also, if your partner doesn’t feel comfortable with penetration, you can also remove that from the list. The don’t list can become pretty big, but don’t get disappointed, at least you have the chance of living your fantasy, so it’s not the time to get greedy, and who knows, if things go well, maybe next time, the initial boundaries may get a little loose.

Do not ignore your partner!

This is a very important rule, I may say it is almost vital for the future of your relationship. So, as tempting as it may be to focus on the novelty in your bed, a.k.a. the escort you’ve booked for the threesome, ignoring your partner and making him/her feel jealous, this is a bad way to start this erotic adventure.

Even if you are involved into a sexual act with the third person in your threesome, make sure that you constantly have an eye for your partner. Use those free hands of yours for some amazing sex play, kiss her, make eye contact and so on. Do not enter a bubble, where there’s only you and that hottie of an escort, because darling, this is a threesome and that means that everybody is entitled to have fun and great orgasms.

Always go for a professional when choosing the third person to join you!

Do not mix business with pleasure of friends with intimate pleasure. And that translates into, do not recruit as a third person in your threesome, someone you work with or a friend, because things may degenerate, feelings may develop, and you can end up screwing both your social/professional life and your personal life.

Instead you can never go wrong by choosing a professional escort, that has threesomes on her service list. An escort knows exactly what her role is in the threesome, knows when to back off and when to leave the two of you alone. Also, a professional escort is way safer, medically speaking, because she is always up to date with her tests and is ok with providing you with her latest results, so that you can be sure you are not contacting an STD or something else.

The hygiene rules that you cannot miss

Always be perfectly groomed and showered before starting any kind of intercourse, because this is a sign of respect for both you and your partners. Also, ask your threesome partners in advance if they have any kind of allergy, so you can avoid using products that can cause them harm, like allergy to a certain type of scent, latex allergy, lube allergy and so on.

Another thing to take into consideration is to always use condoms during threesome, even when you do it with your partner. Have lots of condoms by your bed side and stay responsible even if you get caught in the heat of the moment, and change the condom when preparing to penetrate a third person. This way you avoid a mix of fluids and the spread of some yeast infections or other stuff going on down there.

These are just a few beginner’s pointers for a successful threesome. Add to the suggestions above other things that are a must for you and you can rest assure knowing that your threesome will be simply amazing!